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What’s it Like?

Ever wonder what it’s like to be me? Probably not, but just in case you have . . . It’s looking at my husband and wondering whether he would or should find another woman once I’m gone. We’ve been together 18 years. That’s a lot of time learning to live […]

“Pink”tober Hangover

If anyone looked at my Facebook page during the month of October, they would have been “bashed over the head” (as some have accused) by a daily fact about the horror that is Metastatic Breast Cancer. October is covered in a fresh coat of Pepto-Bismol pink every year, ostensibly to […]

Lies a Mother Tells

Let’s face it. As much as we are constantly on our kids to tell the truth, not lie and always be honest, we moms tell a lot of fibs. Yes, of course there’s a tooth fairy. No, there aren’t any Oreos left. Yes, I love listening to you learn to […]

I Am Not a Fighter

Those of us who are around our mid-40’s like I am probably remember a Nike commercial from the mid-1990’s starring Charles Barkley in which he announced, without shame, “I am not a role model.” Now, I’m more of a football and baseball fan, but I know who Charles Barkley is […]

End of School Blues

As a parent, I’ve never been a big fan of the end of the school year. Actually, it’s the last two months of school that set my teeth on edge. And it’s not just the impending school vacation where I am left with the “rock and a hard place” choice […]


In the immortal words of Tammy Wynette, sometimes it’s hard to be a woman. Just don’t waste your time trying to explain that to a 10.5 year old on the cusp of puberty. Oh, my girl is a hormone machine. She pinballs from ecstasy to tragedy and back again in […]


I haven’t written in a while. I’ve tried. I really have. I’ve spent countless minutes sitting in front of a blank page, willing the words to come to help me deal with the cluster that is life with Stage 4 cancer. And nothing comes. I’ve spent hours in pickup lines […]


It is the first weekend of October, also known as Breast Cancer Awareness month. A few years ago, when I was still in the midst of active treatment, my older son started playing tackle football. During the month of October, they swapped out their maroon socks for pink, the boys […]

Nothing to say . . .

I like to talk. A lot. In school, there was more than one occasion where I had to change desks because I was too chatty with my neighbor. My husband and I can’t get through an entire television show without me interrupting at least three times with random observations, jokes […]

False Alarm

We’ve all heard the stories. Or seen it played out on countless sitcoms. Pregnant mom and dad head to the hospital, convinced that baby’s arrival is imminent. They invite everyone they know – family, friends, co-workers, high school nemesis, Uber driver, et al. – to come join them at the […]

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